Sunday, October 11, 2020

52 Ancestors: Newest - More Letters

This weeks' blog prompt, Newest, immediately brought to mind the newest project I have to get started on - more letters to sort, organize, and transcribe.  And what I'm reminded of is that while my dad had the packrat gene, my mom, apparently, did not.  As evidenced by the stack of letters I'm starting on.

My dad, Gordon Levy, graduated from Fresno High School on June 9, 1944 - just three days after D-Day.  I can imagine the school and town was buzzing with news from Europe but I hope people were able to pause for a minute to recognize those graduating or with other special events going on in their lives.  

Gordon Levy, c. 1944

Dad must have left to start his college life sometime before July 8, 1944.  I'm not sure why he moved to college so early - did he take summer school classes or just want to arrive early so he could settle in before classes started?

This is where the letters come in - just like his parents, he saved everything - letters, letters and more letters!

Of course those closest to my heart (and probably his) were letters from his future wife and my mother, Geraldine Martin.  Mom graduated in 1946 so I know she must have been devastated when he went away to college.  But she filled her time by writing letters.


I've got the letters sorted by sender or receiver and all put into date order.  Now the task is to transcribe them all.  Just like with the letters between my grandparents, I feel a little bit like I'm "spying" but in my heart I know they held on to these letters so that one day someone would find them and enjoy them.  If only Mom had saved the letters that Dad wrote.  Don't worry, she got the packrat gene later in life but didn't seem to have it in 1944.

Here's the first letter she wrote to him.

Mr. Gordon Levy
Box 1431
Stanford University
California

Saturday, July 8, 1944

Dearest Gordon –

Boy was I glad to know where I could write to you.  I wasn’t expecting to know before Monday but am sure glad I can write before that.  I hope you’re as glad to get my letter as I am to write it.  I don’t write very interesting or exciting letters but I’ll try my best.  I wish I could write things the way you can.  For instance, I could never have written anything as nice as what you’d written in my owl.  If I’d known what you’d written maybe I wouldn’t have written the dumb stuff I did.  I wish I hadn’t but it can’t be helped.

Yesterday I got the car and Marty, Kathy, Jackie, Norma, Gwen, her cousin and I went out to the El Rancho swimming.  I got all nice and brown – but still hope to get browner!!  We had a lot of fun – at least I did!

Last night we went out to dinner with a friend of Shel’s.  I nearly hit the roof when I heard about it ‘cause I was dead tired but that’s all the good it did me!  Anyway we had a good dinner and no dishes to wash!!!

Tonight Susanne Atinger is having a party.  We’re all going to have dinner over there and should really have fun.  After the party all the gals are going to Norma’s to stay all night.  Norma got three watermelons for us to have a midnight snak [sic] around two-thirty!!!!  Tomorrow we want to go swimming – hope we can.

All kinds of awful things are happening to my friends – at least I think they’re awful.  First of all Phil and Bob broke up again, which doesn’t really worry anyone, then Norma and Bob are sort of made at each other.  And to top it all off with Marty simply hates Bud.  As if that isn’t enough to worry about I have to miss you so darn much I don’t even care what happens to them.  Darling I miss you so darn much the only person who could possibly interest me would be the postman but today even he couldn’t.

Well from the way I look at it Norma and I should really have fun at Santa Cruz.  Marty, Ann, Phil and maybe Kathy will be there at the same time.  Then too Norma and I are going to have a room all to ourselves.  I can hardly wait til August!!  Long time away though!!!

I wish I knew what and how to write to you.  I guess there isn’t much anyone can say when they feel the way I do.  I can’t write very sweet letters – I’ve never had anyone to write them to before.  About the only thing I can write is what I have – and to tell you (whether you like it or not I don’t know) that even though I act awfully silly at times I really do love you.  For some reason I don’t think you’re going to appreciate that!  You think I’m too young I know but I wonder if when you were as old as I am you felt you were too young?  I’m sorry but that is the way I feel.  I hope you don’t mind me saying so too much.

Well guess I’d better start getting cleaned up.  It’s almost six now and I’ll have to dash if I expect to be at her house at six-thirty.  Please try and write fairly often.

All my love –

Gerry

P.S.  Could you please send me John’s address?  I’d love to write to him if it’s alright with you.


Not too much news, especially since I'm not sure who any of those friends she mentioned are.  This is the second time I've heard her mention him thinking she was "too young".

And then there's a box of letters from his parents and brother, Rob.  



Here's the first letter from his mother.

July 9, 1944

My dear Gord,

We were so happy to hear from you that you had arrived in Palo Alto O.K.  I phoned Mr. Combs to tell him.  Am anxious to receive a letter from you telling all details.  If you do sleep on a porch hope you have adequate covers; if not use your overcoat.  Am wondering just what your room is like and if it is satisfactory for your requirements.

Shall send your shirts and coat hangers tomorrow.  I found a new undershirt in your drawer.  I’ll enclose it in package as you might want it.  Am enclosing two $5 bills in this letter.

It certainly is lonesome without you and now the phone never rings.  The weather was hot Friday but today it is very cool.

I just wrote a letter to Rob.  Don’t forget to write to him occasionally.

Grandma says to tell you she misses you “awful”.  She leaves for S.F. Wed – then we will be alone. 

Last night the Pollack's and Bruckner's were here for a game and it seemed so funny for you not to come in at 1 or 1:30. Tonight we are going out to Uncle Leon’s for a little while so Grandma can tell them good-bye.  Dad worked most of the day today out in the yard.  Bet you are glad you don’t have to set the table, wipe the dishes or work in the yard.

Hope you passed the English A test satisfactorily.

Let us hear from you real soon.

Bushels of love from Daddy and your Loving Mother.

Sunday aft.

Remember you can phone us whenever you feel like it.  If we don’t answer a little after six remember we may be out to dinner and will be home a little later.

I remember when my first daughter started college and she joined a sorority.  She talked about the "sleeping porch" and I was confused as to how or why girls would sleep on a "porch".  Apparently, my grandmother was confused, as well, and I laugh that she reminded him to use his overcoat.  

My grandfather worked in the yard?  In all the years we visited their home I never, ever saw him work in the yard.  And, apparently, my dad also spent some time working in the yard which was something he didn't do much of as we were growing up.  He liked to plant flowers but other than that, we always had a gardener (Tom and his son, Kyoshi) to maintain the yard.

And then Sig sent a very business-like letter.  In fact, it was typed on Levy Bros. stationery and had the familiar notes at the bottom showing Sig dictated the letter, someone else typed it.

July 10, 1944

Dear Gordon:

Enclosed herewith please find signature cards for your bank deposits.

You can sign your name above mine on both cards and take them to your bank unless you have signed them properly up there.

You understand if you get your account below $100.00, I believe, you pay a service charge and also if you draw too many checks you will have to pay a service charge.

Sorry you did not receive your bike, but it was sent out O.K. and you should have it by now.

No doubt you are getting well settled and I hope you are enjoying it.

Love from all

Dad

SL:mm

Enc. 2

Dad was a good son and wrote letters to his parents.  The first letter I found from him was August 12, 1944 sent to them at the Ambassador Hotel in Los Angeles.  My hunch is that for the first month he was away he phoned and then wrote letters while they were on vacation.




August 12th, 1944

Dear Folks:

The mail service is still good.  I received the letter you wrote Thursday night yesterday (Saturday) morning.  It sure brought back the memories…The Grove…eating at Lindy’s….taking in a show at Hollywood…waiting on pins and needles for Rob who was supposed to come at 8 but never got there until 10:30 (that’s Rob)….sitting all afternoon watching the clock, waiting for a room….breakfasting in the Coffee Shop…trudging down to Magnin’s, Mom to look, Dad to smell the perfume…making the next stop at Bullock’s so Pop can say “hello” to the floor-walker…trying to get a free peek at the pretty girls in the swimming pool…getting write-ups in the LA Times…going down to see the Civilian Defense chief.  Yes, there all a part of the vacations of the past, and they’ll be a part of the vacations of the future.

Spent a quiet week-end…taking in a show and resting with the boys.  Found out that somehow I got a B on the Western Civilization exam and I know that I got 73% on the Poly Sci test.  Considering that the highest grade was 88% out of a class of 110, it might be worth a B…I really don’t know.

Got a letter from Sheldon Lewis…he’ll have a commission in about three months.  That lucky guy!!  Oh yes – I bought a sweater at Roos Bros. and charged it…just so you’ll know who’s corrupting the account in Palo Alto.

I suppose you and the younger set had quite a nice time…and how was the blonde??  You’re getting me all excited…tell me all.  If you see Rob again…tell him that I’ve given up all hope of ever hearing from him…also tell him that “We’ve got the axe.”

Here’s hoping your vacation continues to keep in the traditional form… Pop, don’t play too much golf on the pee-wee course!!  It’s too bad Louie Slater isn’t there to show you the town.

I wish I could have a Lindy’s steak…but the Stanford Bowl in Paly is the best I can do…

Love, Gord

POP:  I got a notice from the President’s office about the college program for air corps men like me.  I talked to the professor in charge here who sent me to the Colonel in command of the troops here.  The colonel said that the only benefit would be to become orientated with the army and men with the same goal as myself.  The courses are just the average freshman course….and I wouldn’t stay at Stanford.  I think I’d just as soon stay here and enjoy myself while I can.  There’s no reason to go before I have to.  Agree?

POP?  He called him POP?  I had to laugh that even back then, Rob was late.  It seemed like we experienced that a lot as we were growing up.  

And then there is a box of letters from various people, most of the names of which I don't recognize.  Those will be last in line for transcribing.



I'm excited to spend some time with these letters - I'm glad winter is approaching so I can type away during the long, dark days.

I have so many projects to complete but this is the newest and I'm excited to get started.

7 comments:

  1. Your mother's letter is adorable---it sounds like something I would have written as a teenager--filled with gossip and parties and insecurity! What was the age difference? How long had they been going out when he went off to college?

    Your dad was adorable!

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    1. My mom was 14 months younger than my dad but 2 years behind in school. I don't know exactly how long they'd been together before he left but it couldn't have been more than one school year, although I think it was less. My dad WAS pretty cute, wasn't he?

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  2. Wow, a whole 14 months! Hardly a big age gap. :) I am 17 months older than my husband, and I've never noticed being more mature than he is! In fact, he's always been more mature!!

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    1. Ha - I'm older than my husband, as well, although only by 6 months. My dad came from a privileged upbringing, my mother's was the opposite. I think that contributed to her feelings, as if she didn't "measure up" to him.

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  3. I hope she got over that! I could sense it in her letter.

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  4. I’m reading letters to my mother from a variety of friends. Some of the stuff I’d rather not have learned.

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    1. Haha. Like when I read my grandmother’s diary when she wrote about someone “breaking her in”. Lalalalala.

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