Sunday, August 25, 2019

52 Ancestors: Sister

I'm just coming up for air after several weeks trying to sort out some computer issues - mainly, my laptop stopped working and I decided to take some time to decide what to do about it.  I've been thinking about a new computer and decided that this was the time to make it happen.  My old laptop was still running on Windows 7 - I'm still working out the kinks but I have now managed to get all of my documents and photos off of the old computer and on to the new one.  I still have some programs to move over but have to think through that before I move forward.

I last wrote about Brothers in my tree and I don't want to stop without acknowledging the sisters in my tree.

The oldest photo I have of a sister is my great grandmother, Bertha Schwartz, and her older brother, Joseph.  Two younger brothers, Milton and Colman, followed but for a time it was just Joseph and Bertha.

Rebecca (Steen), Joseph, Bertha, Louis Schwartz
c. 1876
Bertha's oldest child was my grandmother, Mildred Loraine (Gunzendorfer) Levy.  And then came younger brother, Wilton Gunzendorfer.  This is how I remember them and while Loraine always seemed stern to me, she also loved to smile!

Wilt and Loraine (Gunzendorfer) Levy
1980
Loraine's dad was one of four boys so no sisters and my grandfather was also one of four boys.  Of course, my dad wasn't a sister nor did he have a sister so that's all the sisters I can share from that side of the family.  

I remember my mom's grandmother so well.  She was so sweet and always seemed happy to see us.  However, I never, EVER thought about her being a sister and until I started this quest, I really knew nothing about her family.  But along the way I have learned quite a bit about her (her grandfather was one of my favorite ancestors, Emery Waller).  And through this journey I've also "met" some cousins who have been so kind as to share some photos with me.

Thank you, Kris, for this beautiful photo of our great grandmothers, Lilly (McAboy) Langworthy and Mabel (McAboy) Fitzgerald!

Lilly Gay (McAboy) Langworthy - 1867-1949
Mabel Viola (McAboy) Fitzgerald - 1883-1996

Mabel's daughter and my grandmother, Clara Maxine (Fitzgerald) Martin Hunter, was a sister but why didn't I know much about this?  I remember her brother, Stanley, and even met him a few times.  I might remember hearing about a sister but did I ever meet her?  Are there any pictures of them two of them together?  All I really know is her name, Viola Marie (Fitzgerald) Feuerstein Crawford.  I've connected with some of her descendants and would really like to learn more about her.  So for now, I'll just have to leave it to my imagination as to how the two sisters spent their free time.

Photo by simpleinsomnia
And then came my mom, sister to no one as she was the only child of Clara (Fitzgerald) and Earle Martin.  After their divorce, they both remarried and while Clara had no children, Earle did have some more children whom I never met.  In fact, my mother once told me that she remembers only meeting them once.  But if she HAD been a sister, I'm sure she would have been a great one.  Just look at her sitting there so angelic - I can just imagine her saying "if only I were a sister".


Geraldine Martin, 1930

And that leads me to my own sister.  For nearly 7 years we were the only children in the family so as you can imagine, there were quite a few photos of us together over the years.  Here's a few of my favorites.

Hope we didn't catch any flies in those open mouths!


Sisters, 1957

Dad captioned this "Greatest Photo Ever Taken".  I think he just might have been right.



How 'bout those bangs?



Out of all the slides my husband scanned for us after the death of my parents, this was the jewel!

Were we cute or WHAT?

As the years have gone by, we don't get to see each other too often but one of my favorite memories was the family trip to Kauai before Mom died.  What a gift to have spent an entire week with Mom, my siblings, and our spouses.  I can't believe we didn't capture more photos but this might have just been the last time we were all together with Mom.

With our Mama!

No matter the distance, there's always a special bond between sisters!